Meet Martin

Hello! My name is Martin Parian and hopefully we’ll have a chance to chat! My role is to provide a safe environment in which you’ll be able to delve into whatever issues you’d like. I provide services with a strong focus on healthy relationships, shame/guilt, and the cycle of abuse. Whether you’re looking for marriage counseling, family therapy, or want to continue working on yourself individually, I’d be more than happy to help!

I’m an experienced individual and couple’s therapist with a background in forensic psychology. I received my undergraduate degree in Psychology from Bucknell University in 2017 and my graduate degree in Forensic Psychology from the University of Denver in 2020. Since then, I have worked full-time administering treatment and evaluations that focus on inappropriate sexual behaviors/relationships. The goal of this work was to guide clients in addressing preexisting problems while developing new, healthier skills. Often times, I find that many people are bound to their past without even recognizing it. I aim to allow clients to recognize how their past experiences affect their current actions and take action if they feel these past experiences are negatively impacting them. If you’re ready to let go of everything that is hindering your current lifestyle or relationship, let’s begin!

I know you have many options as far as providers are concerned so maybe knowing a bit about my own life will help you make an informed decision. I was born and raised in New York City to a single mother. She always encouraged me to grow and learn as she viewed education as the main way to progress in life. I’ve always held this value close to my heart and decided to seek further education through college. I chose psychology because I’ve always enjoyed listening to the stories of others and am fascinated by both the biology and psychology of the human mind….

…My undergraduate experience was the first time I worked with people in a correctional setting and it made me recognize just how many people needed help but weren’t getting it. With this newfound interest in the forensic population, I sought out programs that focus on this population which led me to Colorado. I primarily utilize dialectical behavioral therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy in session. Throughout this journey, I’ve been blessed enough to be accompanied by my partner of eight years and our two pets. Outside of work, I primarily spend time trying out new restaurants, playing games with friends, reading, and biking.

Meet Mandi

Mandi is a compassionate and dedicated therapist focusing on supporting young children’s emotional well-being. With extensive training in play therapy, child/parent therapy, mindfulness, and other specialized approaches, Mandi brings a comprehensive and tailored skill set to her practice.
Why I became a therapist:
The reason I became a therapist and love therapy is very dynamic. I have first-hand experience with overcoming childhood trauma through therapy and have this undeniable passion for helping children who have experienced the same. I believe in a non-confrontational approach through showing children love, care, and compassion to aid in their development. I hold a safe space for the children and meet them wherever they are in their journey. Children have so much to offer and often need help navigating big feelings and big life events. I love that intervening in a child’s life will directly change the positive development of that child.
As we are all human I have experienced many trials and tribulations overcoming my own trauma. Through the years and a lot of work, I have this innate desire to be the person for children that I needed as a child. I can meet them at a level of compassion that will help them feel scene and comfortable. I do believe that we live a life that happens for a reason and my life and experiences have led me into this role to be able to help kiddos in need and understand them from a level of extreme empathy and compassion for nurturing healthy child development.
About Me:
I live in Lakewood CO with my husband of 12 years, our fur baby Rogue and have a future baby boy growing in my belly! When I am not spending time with my family and friends you can catch me making jewelry for my jewelry brand of 20 years Amanda Amato Jewelry. I absolutely love living in Colorado and all the activities around us that this state has to offer!

New Clients: please email hello@rekindlemarriageandfamilytherapy.com to verify insurance and set up a consult with Mandi!

Andrea Schwartz

Hi – I’m Andrea Schwartz – and I want to thank you for being on my page! I am a compassionate and dedicated child and teen therapist with a strong passion for supporting young individuals in their journey towards emotional well-being and personal growth. I am also an experienced individual and couples therapist. Treating the whole family is why I became a therapist.

I also provide guidance and support to parents and caregivers, empowering them with effective strategies to foster a healthy and nurturing environment at home. I believe that a strong parent-child relationship is crucial for a child’s well-being and I actively collaborate with families to strengthen these bonds.

For parents with children and adolescents:

Most children are not going to be able to sit still in a room for an hour and be able to effectively engage in talk therapy. I understand that play is the natural language of children, and through play, they can express their thoughts, feelings, and experiences in a safe and non-threatening way. I created a nurturing and inviting playroom where children can explore, imagine, and process their emotions at their own pace.

Using a variety of play therapy techniques, including sand play, art therapy, and expressive play, I guide children through their unique healing journeys. I am skilled at building a trusting and therapeutic relationship with my young clients, allowing them to feel seen, heard, and understood.

For parents with teens:

I understand the unique struggles that teenagers face in today’s fast-paced and high-pressure world. I recognize that this stage of life is filled with a multitude of changes, including academic stress, peer relationships, identity exploration, and emotional regulation. With a deep respect for the individuality of each teen, I tailor my approach to meet their specific needs and goals.

Utilizing evidence-based therapies such as cognitive-behavioral therapy and solution-focused therapy, I help teens develop practical skills and strategies to cope with challenges, manage stress, and enhance their overall well-being. I also integrate mindfulness and self-compassion techniques to foster a greater sense of self-awareness and self-acceptance.

For couples:

Knowing what I know about attachment gives me the building blocks to help couples learn the tools they need to start to change their communication. Using Emotion Focused Couples Therapy, I have helped many couples repair trust with each other, reignite their passion for each other, and learn the skills they need to create a strong relationship with each other and those in their home.

More about me:

I graduated from Penn State with a Bachelor’s in Psychology and a minor in Child Maltreatment and Advocacy Studies in 2020. During my time at Penn State, I interned at a Children’s Advocacy Center as a child care specialist, I worked at a crisis and suicide hotline, I worked at a daycare, and I volunteered for Big Brother Big Sister.

I continued my education and graduated from the University of Denver in 2023 with my Masters of Social Work – Child Welfare Concentration. As a masters student, I interned at Central Visitation Program, where I worked alongside parents who lost custody and their children. My role was to empower parents and caregivers with the knowledge and skills to create a nurturing and positive environment for their children. I also provided support to the kiddos during this frightening and stressful time.

With my extensive education, experience, and unwavering commitment to the well-being of children, I create a safe and nurturing environment where children and teens can thrive. I welcome clients from all backgrounds, cultures, and identities to begin their healing journey!

New Clients: please email hello@rekindlemarriageandfamilytherapy.com to verify insurance and set up a consult with Andrea!

5 Reason to Bring Your Kiddo to Therapy

The Top 5 Reasons to Bring Your Child to Therapy

Parenting comes with its share of challenges, and navigating your child’s emotional well-being is undoubtedly one of them. While it might be a tough decision, seeking therapy for your child can be a game-changer in their development. Here are the top five reasons why bringing your kid to therapy could be the best decision you make as a parent.

Kid and Teen Therapy

1. Early Intervention for Behavioral Issues:

• Addressing behavioral concerns in childhood can prevent them from escalating into more significant challenges later on. • Therapists can help identify and manage issues like aggression, defiance, or difficulty interacting with peers.

2. Emotional Regulation and Coping Skills:

• Children, like adults, experience a wide range of emotions. Therapy provides a safe space for them to understand and manage their feelings. • Learning healthy coping mechanisms early on can contribute to better emotional regulation throughout their lives.

3. Academic and Social Challenges:

• If your child is struggling academically or socially, therapy can provide valuable insights and support. • Therapists can work with your child to build confidence, improve social skills, and address any underlying issues affecting their performance.

4. Family Transitions and Changes:

• Significant life events, such as divorce, relocation, or the loss of a loved one, can impact a child’s emotional well-being. • Therapy offers a supportive environment for children to express their feelings and navigate through these transitions with professional guidance.

5. Identifying and Managing Mental Health Issues:

• Just like adults, children can experience mental health challenges. Therapy can help identify and manage conditions like anxiety, depression, or attention-related disorders. • Early intervention can significantly improve long-term outcomes for children facing mental health issues.


In the journey of parenthood, recognizing when your child might benefit from therapy is a powerful and proactive step. Whether it’s addressing behavioral concerns, developing coping skills, navigating transitions, or managing mental health, therapy can be a crucial tool in supporting your child’s overall well-being.

Top 5 Reasons Couples Fight and Need Therapy

Love and companionship are beautiful aspects of any relationship, but they are not immune to disagreements and conflicts. In fact, it’s completely normal for couples to have occasional arguments. However, when these disputes become more frequent or intense, it may be a sign that professional help is needed. In this blog post, we’ll explore the top five reasons why couples fight and how therapy can help mend these issues.

1. Communication Breakdown

One of the most common reasons for couples to argue is a breakdown in communication. Misunderstandings, misinterpretations, and unexpressed feelings can lead to frustration and conflict. Couples therapy can help improve communication by teaching active listening, assertiveness, and better ways to express emotions. When couples learn to communicate effectively, they can resolve issues more constructively.

2. Financial Stress

Money matters often cause tension in relationships. Disagreements about budgeting, spending habits, or financial goals can escalate into heated arguments. In therapy, couples can learn to work together to create a financial plan that suits both partners and find compromises that reduce financial stress. Understanding each other’s financial values is key to resolving this issue.

3. Intimacy and Sexual Issues

Intimacy and sexual problems can be significant sources of strife in a relationship. These issues might manifest as differences in desire, sexual dissatisfaction, or difficulties in discussing one’s needs and boundaries. A therapist can provide a safe space for couples to address these sensitive topics, improve their sexual connection, and develop a healthier understanding of each other’s needs and desires.

4. Trust and Infidelity

Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship. When it’s shattered by infidelity or any other breach of trust, couples often face intense emotional turmoil. Therapists can help couples navigate the process of rebuilding trust, working through the underlying issues that contributed to the betrayal, and facilitating open and honest communication to heal together.

5. Differences in Values and Goals

Couples may also argue about differences in values, life goals, and priorities. Whether it’s related to career aspirations, family planning, or lifestyle choices, these differences can create tension. Therapy can help couples explore their values, understand each other’s perspectives, and find common ground or compromise on these important matters.

Fighting in a relationship is normal, but it’s essential to address the underlying issues that lead to arguments. Couples therapy offers a safe and supportive environment for couples to explore these issues, develop healthier communication patterns, and work towards solutions together. Remember, seeking professional help is a proactive step towards a stronger, more harmonious relationship. By addressing these top five reasons for couples to fight, you can build a stronger foundation for a loving and lasting partnership.